To celebrate John’s 50th birthday, we decided that we were going to throw a large party. We told Viola, who also worked on the side as a bartender at private parties, that we wanted her to come as guest. But she would not hear of it. She enjoyed her star turn as an entertainer behind the bar too much to be merely among the invitees. So we set up a bar for her on the back deck, under a tent erected for the occasion. And there she became the heart and soul of the party, dispensing drinks and good humor in equal measure.
When Viola and her husband moved to
a few years ago, we were devastated. We do stay in touch by phone and see her on her occasional visits to her family in North Carolina . Fredericksburg
When I had a double knee replacement in 2007, Viola came up to help John look after me during my recovery. Her company was extremely therapeutic, and she cooked some wonderful meals for me while she was here. Her specialty was “a mess of greens.” Here is my version, inspired by her recipe:
1 lb of kale, chopped and washed
1 tablespoon of cooking oil
1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil
Four cloves of garlic, sliced
2 tablespoons (more or less) of country ham bits
1 teaspoon of salt and about ¼ teaspoon of freshly ground pepper
Grated ginger (optional)
1 cup of chicken broth
In a pot large enough to hold the pound of chopped kale, pour a tablespoon of cooking oil, and over medium heat, sauté the ham and sliced garlic until the garlic is lightly browned. Add one cup of chicken broth and the kale, salt and pepper. Reduce the heat and simmer until kale is tender (20-25 minutes. Drain, saving the “pot liquor” for a soup. Stir in the olive oil and optional ginger. Serve.